Seeking some advice from a 3rd party about neighbor disput?

well you should record this if it's possiable! So that way you have proof to sue her for slandering your name and you could get a protection order only against her! So she can not come in or near your house! and if you are at a store or a reasraunt eating she has to leave and your bf will still be able to be with you or come see you! seems to me like shes just an old lonely old woman who wants some c0ck and can't get none!