Husband having with everyone but me. Know a good divorc lawyer in NY?

Was checking history on the comp. to find a site I visited. Ran into his profiles. Clicked on a couple and found out he's been meeting up with "swingers" and is having all over Upstate NY with women, couples, etc. He has a job that keeps him traveling a lot, so it has been easy for him. He has multiple email accounts and dating accounts. Nice. I am not in a financial position to deal with my finances at this time, but will be soon. What would you do???